Be Good. Be Stoiciser

"No Emotional, No Fun!"

Maybe those words can be used as an excuse when we can no longer control our emotions when facing a problem. Often, we are too ahead of feelings rather than logic, and in the end, we become easily angry, cry or stay silent. But the more we get older, the more we grow up and are made aware of many experiences. That experience is our basis for being able to change to be wiser in a situation that is not okay. The more mature the more we know that not everything can be according to our will, the more mature the more aware we are that we have hoped too much for human expectations, even though we forget that there is a substance that always accepts us home in joy and sorrow, won't even refuse to give us a hug when it's shattered. No.. this is not what I want to vent, but I know how we can control ourselves or improve our control so that we can create a mindset that is much more mature and wise in behavior, this is often referred to as "Stoicism". What's mean? and how am I supposed to do with this Shit-situation?

First, I'll explain to you about Stoicism is.

Stoicism is a behavior where you can control your emotions in a situation that you prove it. You can anger management, so you can think twice about your behavior when you face a problem or a situation you don't want to.

The Philosophy of Stoicism comes from Yunani "Stoa", which means "porch" or "balcony" cause the Stoics discussed their building balcony in Athena. This philosophy is spreading in Oldest Yunani and one of the famous genres of the Roman Era.

The figure who has character as Stoicism are Epictetus, Seneca, and Marcus Aurelius.

They are known as stoicism philosophers who greatly influence the history of philosophy and still affect worldview.

The Stoiciser also teaches us the way to be simple-life, they believe that happiness didn't come from the wealthy and the luxury. But, remember, being stoic doesn't mean we should act like a robot that doesn't have any feeling we just have a unique way to control your-self emotion.

Those are the characteristics of Stoicism :

1. Control Yourself So Well

Stoiciser can control their emotion and reaction to a bad situation. Stoiciser can face such as sad, and anger with calmness and wisely.

2. The Simple Life

The Stoiciser prioritize their important things over wealth and materials. They are chosen to more focus on their self-development and long-term well-being.

3. Logic and Realistic

The Stoiciser is more logical and realistic to solve the problem and decide something. They do not get emotional or personal feelings in their process of thinking.

4. Responsibility for Their Life

The Stoiciser has responsibility for their happy life. They are open-minded to criticism and advice from around to be better.

5. Appreciate Time

The Stoickiser always appreciates time more than wasting time on unimportant things. They always do many activities to get a better life.

Yap, that's my opinion about Stoicism and you, are you one of them?